Without taking in consideration the data above, if the question is:
"What is the estimated probability of having superstrength for a female superhero?" am I supposed to compare the proportions of female with males or compare the proportions of woman with superstrenght with those who do not possess this ability?
So in this case, I am right if I calculate the probability of having superstrength for a female superhero by the following way:
female with superstrenght divided by all (males and females) superheros with superstrenght . And then I try to compute the odds ?
This output is not sufficient. Your calculation should be based on the cross-tabulation of Gender and SuperStrength. Also, read about conditional probability in any book on elementary probability theory.